There are days I struggle to show my kids that I actually do care. And while this list is geared at showing kids you care, it’s also useful for husbands, wives or anyone else you care about! If you are like me and need a reminder every now and again, this list is for you.
I tried not to duplicate any, but a few of these ideas are very similar to others.
50 Ways to Show Kids You Care:
- Notice them.
- Smile.
- Learn (and use) their names.
- Look in their eyes when you speak to them.
- Remember their birthdays.
- Ask them about themselves.
- Listen to what they have to say.
- Use your ears more than your mouth.
- Say yes.
- Concentrate on them (forget your problems).
- Notice when they are acting differently.
- Surprise them.
- Suggest better behavior choices when they act out.
- Share their excitement.
- Send them postcards.
- Give them space when they need it.
- Talk about their dreams and fears.
- Laugh at their jokes.
- Be relaxed.
- Praise them.
- Create traditions and keep them.
- Make yourself available.
- Show up to the things they find important.
- Apologize if you’ve done something wrong.
- Keep your promises.
- Thank them.
- Give compliments/Point out what you like about them.
- Give your undivided attention.
- Ask their opinions.
- Let them solve most of their own problems.
- Let them tell you how they feel.
- Be excited about what they are excited about.
- Let them act their age.
- Don’t criticize.
- Be consistent.
- Give them nicknames.
- Enjoy the time you spend together.
- Pamper them.
- Believe in them.
- Respect them.
- Visit them at school. {Ex: Have lunch with them}
- Accept them as they are.
- Be their advocate.
- Talk openly with them.
- Do what they like to do.
- Encourage them to think big.
- Set expectations and give immediate feedback.
- Expect their best, not perfection.
- Cheer for them and love them no matter what.
- Be honest & sincere.
What ways do you show your kids (and/or husband) you care?
Send them postcards… I love that idea!
My kids went crazy when the grandparents sent them Valentines cards… I never thought to send them something like a postcard from me.
Thank you!
What great little reminders of ideas to make kids feel special. I try very hard to do many of these things because I want my boys to know they mean the world to me.
Yes, Yes, Yes!!! I love this post! Pinning it and tweeting it and sharing it on my Facebook page because I think my readers will love it too! Too often we forget to show our kids we love them vs just telling them.